About The Last Day from a Dead.

About The Last Day from a Dead.

Dressed in good wardrobes on which I have spent hard all my life will now mix in dust with me.

Watching the people who unlike me spared some time and gathered to mourn over my loss with flowers in their hands, sadness on their face and prayers in their mouth.

Accustomed to bear my absence I feel Painful for my loved ones bursting in tears.

No envy continues with people whom I had differences with because it is easier to forgive people who are no more than ones who are alive.

about funeral from a dead person

I won’t fear being placed in a six-sided rectangular box as I have been rehearsing all my life by building walls around me where I suffered alone and no one was permitted to enter it nor was I able to break it.

The box now holds only my powerless body without soul and not anything that I have gained all my life. It is now that I realize “At the end what matters most is how good you were as human”.

The first step towards my last journey begins as I am carried out of my residence which I had built with bucks I earned sacrificing my dreams, my time and my family with whom I stayed not lived.

About The Last Day from a Dead.

I Spent my life trying to be independent and not ask for help. I am now Placed in a vehicle with the help of people to haul towards the holy place for last rituals.

Heading towards my real destination I discern that the far I tried to run from this the more I came near to it.

I see the grave newly dug to make a place for me to rest on the land which does not belong to me but rather It is I who belong to this land.

about funeral from dead person

The love and compassion which I have starved for is now in abundance as I feel the final kisses from the people gathered.

A piece of cloth covers my face and the door of the box now shut.

I bid goodbye with regret that I did not live the way I wished to or the way I should have lived but all my worldly desires, sufferings, worries and pain vanishes now.
I now Rest in Peace.

rest in peace

 

Relationship Rules

relationship rules

Love is a wonderful feeling and the first step for a successful relationship is Love. But Relationships are bonds that can be easily broken if we don’t care for it. Keeping a relationship alive is the biggest challenge as god created human indifferent from each other. Their choices, dreams, expectations, behavior all differ.

There are five rules that every partners in relationship should follow:
  1. Don’t assume

“Assumptions are the termites of relationships”. If you observe a broken relationship you may find assumption as one of the reason. We make lot of assumptions which does not appear to be true all times but we later believe and live in those assumptions. Do not assume, Listen and understand your partner as assumption leads to anger, jealously, hatred etc.

  1. Build a Partnership

“Partnership is the real romance in marriage”. Any kind of relationship needs partnership to survive. Build a partnership to create an everlasting bond. Appreciate your partner for what he is. Make an effort to improve your relationship. Remember, The most affection your partner needs is when you have a fight.

“Never above you. Never below you. Always Beside you.”

  1. Forgive

Every human makes mistakes. No one is perfect. You need to forgive and forget your ego if you value your relationship. Don’t hesitate to say Sorry. You can live in peace only when you forgive. Forgiveness is like a gift to yourself and your partner.

relationship rules

  1. Anger

Any fight between the two leaves an impact on both though one may pretend to be strong. Both are hurt and one should emphasize the situation before anger rules the mind. When your anger calms down you may repent that you have wasted your time in anger instead of love. So its better to talk and solve the issue. Holding on anger only hurts you, builds nothing and destroy everything.

  1. Family

Your family does not know your partner the way you do. Their opinions would differ. Nor would your partner know your family the way you do. Maintain good balance between your relationship with family and partner. It is better to take care that your family or partner does not become a reason for your breakup with one another.

“All Relationships go through hell; real relationship gets through it.”

relationship rules