Avoid the Blue Whale Challenge Suicidal game

depression

Depression and anxiety are the serious issues faced in society. It is said ‘When you are depressed you don’t control your thoughts, your thoughts control you.’ This is very well understood by the results of the game called “Blue Whale Challenge a Suicidal Game”.

This game has led to many suicidal deaths all over the world.

This article is to make you aware of the game and its consequences to ensure safety of your loved ones because Life is Beautiful with your loved ones.

“Blue Whale suicide game “, is an internet game which exist in more than 19 countries which include USA and India as well. The game assigns a series of tasks to players by administrators during a 50-day period, with the final challenge of committing suicide.

It began in Russia in 2013 with “F57”, on VKontakte social network, and allegedly caused its first suicide in 2015. Philipp Budeikin, a former psychology student who was restricted from his university, claimed that he invented the game.

Also note that this game is not downloadable, application or any software It is a social media phenomenon which enters social media networks from secretive groups.

About the blue whale challenge a suicidal game

Below are the challenges which users has to accept after accessing this game which gets tougher with each day passing and duration to complete all task is 50 days.

  1. Carve a specific phrase on the person’s own hand or arm.
  2. Wake up at 4:20 a.m. and watch a scary video (sent by the curator.)
  3. Make lengthwise cuts on the person’s own arm.
  4. Draw a whale on a piece of paper
  5. Write “yes” on the person’s own leg if ready to be a whale. Otherwise, they should cut themselves multiple times.
  6. Secret task (written in code.)
  7. Scratch (a message) on the person’s own arm.
  8. Write a status online about being a whale.
  9. Overcome a fear.
  10. Get up at 4:20 and go to the roof.
  11. Carve a whale on the person’s own hand.
  12. Watch scary videos all day.
  13. Listen to music the “curator” sends.
  14. Cut your lip.
  15. Poke the person’s own arm/hand with a needle.
  16. Make yourself hurt or sick.
  17. Go to a roof and stand on the edge.
  18. Stand on a bridge.
  19. Climb a crane.
  20. At this step, the “curator” somehow checks to see if the participant is trustworthy.
  21. Talk with a “whale” on Skype.
  22. Sit down on a roof with legs dangling over the edge.
  23. Another job that is in code.
  24. A secret mission
  25. Meet with a “whale”.
  26. The “curator” assigns a date that the person will die.
  27. Visit a railroad.
  28. Do not talk with anyone all day.
  29. Give an oath/vow about being a whale
  30. After these steps, steps 30-49 involve watching horror movies and listening to music that the curator picks, talking to a whale, and making cuts.
  31. The last task is jumping off a building.

Government of India has directed several Internet companies to remove links which direct users to the game. But it is available in other names as well. So If you report any unusual behavior of a person around you it’s time for you to act and save them.

Growing up a child itself is a challenge and to keep them away from all these temptation is bigger task as this generation is becoming techno savvy. But Remember “Smartphones cannot be a substitute for parenting”.

How to save relationship when you disagree with your partner

“Relationships with no argument is relationship with lots of secrets”

Yes, because this is how you get to know each other. It is obvious that you would disagree with your partner in some or the other matter of life. And sometimes this can result into creating distance between you and your partner. It is said that “Two angels with one broken wings each can fly together holding each other”.

There are many complications faced while you are in relationship because you are two different soul trying to be one. One of the which is “disagreement” and Here are some habits you can apply in your relationship to save it.

  • Listen

“Most people do not listen with the intent to understand; they listen with the intention to reply”

how to save your relationship when you disagree

This is most important aspect to have a good communication. And this is what you need to do to understand your partner’s point of view. If you understand your partner’s exact matter of concern which makes him disagree with you, you might be able to find a solution. Thus, if you remain silent for a while and listen to him you may avoid fights and find a solution.

Every one of us has got a different way of living. We face different challenges, have different backgrounds and that’s what makes you a kind of person you are. The reason of a person disagreeing with you might be because he sees or has seen life differently or is in a different position from you. And so you need to think as per his point of view.

  • Explainexplain not express

“Explain not express”. Whatever your point of view is need to be explained in calm and with love. Sometimes it just ends up expressing your anger. It is said that 90% of people fail to make their point because of their tone of voice. So, it is important that you choose a proper way to make him understand your point.

  • Make a Request
    How to save your relationship when you disagree with your partner

It is OK to make a request if the views completely differ. He may accept it only for you. You are never at loss if you say sorry or make a request in love.

  • Do not Force

Do not force to agree with you. If your partner has a strong opinion that he is right and you too believe your own. Do not force him to change as well.

Lastly, Prefer losing an argument to uphold a golden relationship.