How to save relationship when you disagree with your partner

“Relationships with no argument is relationship with lots of secrets”

Yes, because this is how you get to know each other. It is obvious that you would disagree with your partner in some or the other matter of life. And sometimes this can result into creating distance between you and your partner. It is said that “Two angels with one broken wings each can fly together holding each other”.

There are many complications faced while you are in relationship because you are two different soul trying to be one. One of the which is “disagreement” and Here are some habits you can apply in your relationship to save it.

  • Listen

“Most people do not listen with the intent to understand; they listen with the intention to reply”

how to save your relationship when you disagree

This is most important aspect to have a good communication. And this is what you need to do to understand your partner’s point of view. If you understand your partner’s exact matter of concern which makes him disagree with you, you might be able to find a solution. Thus, if you remain silent for a while and listen to him you may avoid fights and find a solution.

Every one of us has got a different way of living. We face different challenges, have different backgrounds and that’s what makes you a kind of person you are. The reason of a person disagreeing with you might be because he sees or has seen life differently or is in a different position from you. And so you need to think as per his point of view.

  • Explainexplain not express

“Explain not express”. Whatever your point of view is need to be explained in calm and with love. Sometimes it just ends up expressing your anger. It is said that 90% of people fail to make their point because of their tone of voice. So, it is important that you choose a proper way to make him understand your point.

  • Make a Request
    How to save your relationship when you disagree with your partner

It is OK to make a request if the views completely differ. He may accept it only for you. You are never at loss if you say sorry or make a request in love.

  • Do not Force

Do not force to agree with you. If your partner has a strong opinion that he is right and you too believe your own. Do not force him to change as well.

Lastly, Prefer losing an argument to uphold a golden relationship.

Relationship Rules

relationship rules

Love is a wonderful feeling and the first step for a successful relationship is Love. But Relationships are bonds that can be easily broken if we don’t care for it. Keeping a relationship alive is the biggest challenge as god created human indifferent from each other. Their choices, dreams, expectations, behavior all differ.

There are five rules that every partners in relationship should follow:
  1. Don’t assume

“Assumptions are the termites of relationships”. If you observe a broken relationship you may find assumption as one of the reason. We make lot of assumptions which does not appear to be true all times but we later believe and live in those assumptions. Do not assume, Listen and understand your partner as assumption leads to anger, jealously, hatred etc.

  1. Build a Partnership

“Partnership is the real romance in marriage”. Any kind of relationship needs partnership to survive. Build a partnership to create an everlasting bond. Appreciate your partner for what he is. Make an effort to improve your relationship. Remember, The most affection your partner needs is when you have a fight.

“Never above you. Never below you. Always Beside you.”

  1. Forgive

Every human makes mistakes. No one is perfect. You need to forgive and forget your ego if you value your relationship. Don’t hesitate to say Sorry. You can live in peace only when you forgive. Forgiveness is like a gift to yourself and your partner.

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  1. Anger

Any fight between the two leaves an impact on both though one may pretend to be strong. Both are hurt and one should emphasize the situation before anger rules the mind. When your anger calms down you may repent that you have wasted your time in anger instead of love. So its better to talk and solve the issue. Holding on anger only hurts you, builds nothing and destroy everything.

  1. Family

Your family does not know your partner the way you do. Their opinions would differ. Nor would your partner know your family the way you do. Maintain good balance between your relationship with family and partner. It is better to take care that your family or partner does not become a reason for your breakup with one another.

“All Relationships go through hell; real relationship gets through it.”

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