Relationship Rules

relationship rules

Love is a wonderful feeling and the first step for a successful relationship is Love. But Relationships are bonds that can be easily broken if we don’t care for it. Keeping a relationship alive is the biggest challenge as god created human indifferent from each other. Their choices, dreams, expectations, behavior all differ.

There are five rules that every partners in relationship should follow:
  1. Don’t assume

“Assumptions are the termites of relationships”. If you observe a broken relationship you may find assumption as one of the reason. We make lot of assumptions which does not appear to be true all times but we later believe and live in those assumptions. Do not assume, Listen and understand your partner as assumption leads to anger, jealously, hatred etc.

  1. Build a Partnership

“Partnership is the real romance in marriage”. Any kind of relationship needs partnership to survive. Build a partnership to create an everlasting bond. Appreciate your partner for what he is. Make an effort to improve your relationship. Remember, The most affection your partner needs is when you have a fight.

“Never above you. Never below you. Always Beside you.”

  1. Forgive

Every human makes mistakes. No one is perfect. You need to forgive and forget your ego if you value your relationship. Don’t hesitate to say Sorry. You can live in peace only when you forgive. Forgiveness is like a gift to yourself and your partner.

relationship rules

  1. Anger

Any fight between the two leaves an impact on both though one may pretend to be strong. Both are hurt and one should emphasize the situation before anger rules the mind. When your anger calms down you may repent that you have wasted your time in anger instead of love. So its better to talk and solve the issue. Holding on anger only hurts you, builds nothing and destroy everything.

  1. Family

Your family does not know your partner the way you do. Their opinions would differ. Nor would your partner know your family the way you do. Maintain good balance between your relationship with family and partner. It is better to take care that your family or partner does not become a reason for your breakup with one another.

“All Relationships go through hell; real relationship gets through it.”

relationship rules

Making way from Struggle to Success.

“You can achieve anything with your talent and hard work”.

making way from struggle to success

This article is about a man who made his way from Struggle to Success.

(Read the article and guess who this person is)

I bet You have never seen or heard about a man like him before.

I am not going to narrate the success story of this man but highlight the important phase of his life where he stood firm, labored hard, followed his dreams and made his way to success.

In 2002-05 this man was out of work and 2004 was the worst year of his struggle.

He acted in many Bollywood films playing small roles when we dint even knew his name. His first Bollywood debut was in 1999 as a local criminal in film ‘Sarfarosh’ and as a waiter in film ‘Shool’.

He did some odd jobs like watchman and survived his living but his passion for acting dint stumble. He hung out at film studios and shootings but only got stereotypical roles. Moreover he was rejected number of times because of his looks.

His friends and relatives said “How will he become a hero”.

But nothing stopped him from mesmerizing us with his talent.

His appearance in Movie Black Friday 2007 made his way for powerful roles in industry.

I think this man is a real-life hero as he survived the most difficult times of his life and made a way out of it.

In our lives, we often are in our struggling period where sometimes we are asked to play small roles and sometimes rejected. And also our near dear ones doubt our talent. 

It is our Choice whether to Give Up or Try to overcome it.

Here are some of the Key takeaways from this real life hero:

— Don’t hesitate to take small steps. Sometimes In life You need to start from bottom to reach a greater height.

— Nothing is permanent in this world. Not even the struggles.

— Rejection is not the end of the journey.

— Never lose hope.

— Don’t judge people with their looks. Their talents and abilities can astonish you any time.

— Stop Doubting on Yourself, Work hard and make it happen.

— Focus on your goal.

Can you guess who this man is? Leave his name and what inspires you from his life in the comment box.
making way from struggle to success
(Appearance as Waiter in Film Shool)