“Relationships with no argument is relationship with lots of secrets”
Yes, because this is how you get to know each other. It is obvious that you would disagree with your partner in some or the other matter of life. And sometimes this can result into creating distance between you and your partner. It is said that “Two angels with one broken wings each can fly together holding each other”.
There are many complications faced while you are in relationship because you are two different soul trying to be one. One of the which is “disagreement” and Here are some habits you can apply in your relationship to save it.
“Most people do not listen with the intent to understand; they listen with the intention to reply”
This is most important aspect to have a good communication. And this is what you need to do to understand your partner’s point of view. If you understand your partner’s exact matter of concern which makes him disagree with you, you might be able to find a solution. Thus, if you remain silent for a while and listen to him you may avoid fights and find a solution.
Every one of us has got a different way of living. We face different challenges, have different backgrounds and that’s what makes you a kind of person you are. The reason of a person disagreeing with you might be because he sees or has seen life differently or is in a different position from you. And so you need to think as per his point of view.
“Explain not express”. Whatever your point of view is need to be explained in calm and with love. Sometimes it just ends up expressing your anger. It is said that 90% of people fail to make their point because of their tone of voice. So, it is important that you choose a proper way to make him understand your point.
Make a Request
It is OK to make a request if the views completely differ. He may accept it only for you. You are never at loss if you say sorry or make a request in love.
Do not Force
Do not force to agree with you. If your partner has a strong opinion that he is right and you too believe your own. Do not force him to change as well.