Love is a wonderful feeling and the first step for a successful relationship is Love. But Relationships are bonds that can be easily broken if we don’t care for it. Keeping a relationship alive is the biggest challenge as god created human indifferent from each other. Their choices, dreams, expectations, behavior all differ.
There are five rules that every partners in relationship should follow:
- Don’t assume
“Assumptions are the termites of relationships”. If you observe a broken relationship you may find assumption as one of the reason. We make lot of assumptions which does not appear to be true all times but we later believe and live in those assumptions. Do not assume, Listen and understand your partner as assumption leads to anger, jealously, hatred etc.
- Build a Partnership
“Partnership is the real romance in marriage”. Any kind of relationship needs partnership to survive. Build a partnership to create an everlasting bond. Appreciate your partner for what he is. Make an effort to improve your relationship. Remember, The most affection your partner needs is when you have a fight.
“Never above you. Never below you. Always Beside you.”
Every human makes mistakes. No one is perfect. You need to forgive and forget your ego if you value your relationship. Don’t hesitate to say Sorry. You can live in peace only when you forgive. Forgiveness is like a gift to yourself and your partner.
Any fight between the two leaves an impact on both though one may pretend to be strong. Both are hurt and one should emphasize the situation before anger rules the mind. When your anger calms down you may repent that you have wasted your time in anger instead of love. So its better to talk and solve the issue. Holding on anger only hurts you, builds nothing and destroy everything.
Your family does not know your partner the way you do. Their opinions would differ. Nor would your partner know your family the way you do. Maintain good balance between your relationship with family and partner. It is better to take care that your family or partner does not become a reason for your breakup with one another.
“All Relationships go through hell; real relationship gets through it.”